The ‘Yeah I’m feeling nice today’ indicated they were going to pay for it.
This has been a common repost. The first time I saw it the story was the person messaging was a Tinder match and this was there first text conversation.
That’s a pretty rough first impression to make on someone you’re trying to date, haha!
This is why autistic people have trust issue.
What does autism have to do with this?
The ‘Yeah I’m feeling nice today’ indicating that they would pay for it is basically some level of encrypted information.
As an experienced adult, i did understand the implication. But when it turns out they didn’t pay i would more likely second doubt myself. After all whats more likely, that I misunderstood the information/ wasn’t clear about what i wanted. Which is a daily occurrence. Or that the other person choses to “prank?” me instead of just saying “no, pay for your own food”
I wouldn’t beg for free food but if i did i would have said “buy and order” me a pizza to be as clear i am asking for both those things.
The ‘Yeah I’m feeling nice today’ indicated they were going to pay for it.
People suggesting to eat somewhere really stress me out sometimes because the topic of payment and “does this place fits everyones budget” are rarely made explicitly clear.
To be fair, I understood right away that “ordering” meant “buying”, because these days you can order your own pizza as easily as texting someone else to do it. It’s kind of a big ask if you’re not actually in a relationship already whether romantic or platonic.
