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minus-squareClent@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down2·4 months agoTelling people to “be nice” isn’t being nice.
minus-squaresurewhynotlem@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up6arrow-down1·4 months agoParadox of tolerance. Someone needs to correct the grumpy lady if she wants to keep participating.
minus-squareClent@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·4 months agoI am not calling out the need for the request but pedantically suggesting there is a nice to ask someone to be nice and ‘be nice’ isn’t it.
minus-squaresurewhynotlem@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·4 months agoOooh, gotcha. Yeah, it’s a rude way to put it, yes. Necessary to do, but could be worded nicer.
minus-squarenickwitha_k (he/him)@lemmy.sdf.orglinkfedilinkarrow-up4·4 months agoDepends on the context.
minus-squareClent@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·4 months agoCan you provide a context in which it is?
minus-squarenickwitha_k (he/him)@lemmy.sdf.orglinkfedilinkarrow-up2·4 months agoPerson A being catty towards Person B. Parent or friend to Person A: Be nice.
minus-squareClent@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down4·4 months agoI disagree. Without at least a “please” in there it cannot be considered nice.
Telling people to “be nice” isn’t being nice.
Paradox of tolerance. Someone needs to correct the grumpy lady if she wants to keep participating.
I am not calling out the need for the request but pedantically suggesting there is a nice to ask someone to be nice and ‘be nice’ isn’t it.
Oooh, gotcha. Yeah, it’s a rude way to put it, yes. Necessary to do, but could be worded nicer.
Depends on the context.
Can you provide a context in which it is?
Person A being catty towards Person B.
Parent or friend to Person A: Be nice.
I disagree. Without at least a “please” in there it cannot be considered nice.