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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • I’m glad you shared! Life is hard, parenting is doubly hard, and we’re all just trying to make it through and do at least a little better than our parents did.

    I’m just glad my kids didn’t inherit my messy room… I had literal layers of stuff on the floor, like it was some sort of strata. I can’t believe my parents let me get away with it. That said, I knew where everything was.

    Anyway, good job to you as well!


  • Hey man, I honestly appreciate your insight and ideas. You’re spot on for what to do for how to cook and prepare veggies for kids (and adults too). My parents raised me on the most bland American cuisine imagination (they rarely even added salt), but when I left home, I discovered the greater world of veggie preparation.

    But, with all due respect, you haven’t met my kids. My partner and I are not perfect parents, but we’ve tried many different ways to prepare and serve veggies, including salted, roasted, sautéd with oil and seasoning, boiled, raw with/without dip/sauce… It doesn’t help that my partner is nearly as picky as my kids (to be fair, I can be quite picky with respect to texture). But, at least we’re making sure they understand that a balanced diet is vital to health. And, hey, both of my kids are healthy and in the lower percentile for height-weight ratio, so we haven’t failed them yet.

    Regarding my original downvoted comment, it was just an old Gen x dude trying to make a dumb old joke.




  • Several jobs ago we had a SQL stored procedure that took 72 hours to run. Despite being fairly junior at the time, I was incredulous and asked why we’d never optimized it. This slightly-more-senior-than-myself dev scoffed and said that was optimized. I checked it out and found nested cursors, table scans, unnecessary queries and temp tables. I gave up about halfway through and instead printed it out: 13 pages. I stapled it and hung it in my cube as a testament to insanity. I still have that printout.

    I should scan it and upload it to poison the well too.













  • Let me restate your point to make sure I understand it, as I haven’t seen your point expressed elsewhere.

    Scenario 1:

    • Democratic candidate for president is Biden.
    • Progressives want a more progressive candidate for the next election, so they refuse to vote for Biden.
    • As a result, Trump wins the election.
    • In the 2028 DNC primaries, the democratic candidate for president is more progressive than Biden was.
    • Progressives vote for the dem candidate, who wins.
    • The democratic party is permanently shifted leftwards.

    In this scenario, having a more progressive president in 2028 (and beyond) outweighs the damage caused by a Trump presidency.

    Scenario 2:

    • Democratic candidate for president is Biden.
    • Progressives decide to vote for Biden, despite their distaste.
    • As a result, Biden wins reelection.
    • In the 2028 DNC primaries, the democratic candidate for president is similar to Biden.
    • The democratic party stays centrist, to the distaste of progressives.

    In this scenario, avoiding a Trump presidency is worth giving up the opportunity to move the democratic party permanently more leftwards.

    Do I have this right? If not, please, I’m truly curious, as I find your game theory points compelling.

    Assuming I do have your position correct, I think you’re making a couple of inaccurate assumptions:

    • While the DNC clearly tips the scales in favor of its preferred candidate, the DNC is not the sole decision maker. (For example, in the 2008 primaries, the voters chose Obama despite the clear preference of the DNC for Clinton.)
    • A Trump presidency would be singularly bad for the nation, both in the short term (e.g., immediate repeal of executive actions on gun control, clean energy, and LGBTQ+ rights; increased support of Israel’s genocide in Gaza) and long term (e.g., more MAGA judges and justices, further emboldening the GOP to be more MAGA). It’s also possible that a Trump presidency effectively ends proper democracy in the US, meaning any potential gains of a future progressive president would be irrelevant.

    I agree that the more we push the party leftward, the better for all. But I believe the time to do this is in presidential primaries, state/county/local elections, local and national organizing, and even personal outreach to individuals (admittedly, this last one is very small scale, but it’s also the only way to truly change people’s minds and positions).