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  • jjjalljs@ttrpg.networktoPeople Twitter@sh.itjust.worksI'm cackling
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    12 hours ago

    Uh… Okay. You asked how someone could possibly argue that it isn’t racist, and I provided a path for that.

    I didn’t say nor mean to imply that the more colloquial definitions are wrong. I was saying that if you are considering racism to be about oppression along racial lines, then a white guy being given mold sauce isn’t it. The “if” there is doing a lot of work.

    The more commonly used sense of the word “racism” checks out here.


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    13 hours ago

    If you define racism as prejudice based on perceived race, then sure. If you take a more academic definition, such as this one from Wikipedia

    Racism can also be said to describe a condition in society in which a dominant racial group benefits from the oppression of others, whether that group wants such benefits or not.

    Then this scenario not so much.


  • I think there’s a scene in a TV show recently where the modern day Nazi says something like “They like what I say. They just don’t like the word Nazi”

    Many people have a, let’s say, shallow understanding of history. They believe Nazis are bad but just like axiomatically. They don’t have a good definition of why, and so they don’t really see it when their in-group behaves the same.







  • jjjalljs@ttrpg.networktoScience Memes@mander.xyzI dunno
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    3 days ago

    I like and respect teachers, but I’m a software developer and I’m telling you that adding extra parenthesis often adds clarity and makes the whole process smoother. You exist in a whole other context that has norms and assumptions that do not apply to what I’m talking about.

    You being technically correct is irrelevant.



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    3 days ago

    That’s because it’s already clear as is, as per the rules of Maths.

    More people evaluate 2+3x4 incorrectly than 2+(3x4). So, no, your answer does not hold up to my observed reality. You can throw as many “well technically” and “well actually” as you want, but that’s not going to fix the bug or make a pr.



  • Part of that falls under the “don’t show up when invited” umbrella, but mostly that sucks. I’m sorry you feel like your efforts and friendship efforts weren’t appreciated.

    I’ve definitely had a couple friends (“friends”) that were lopsided. I remember posting about one way back in the 2000s on some web forum, and a guy with a otter(?) avatar told me “This guy, that flakes on your plans and only shows up when it works for him? He doesn’t respect you. Don’t put up with that”. Good advice from a small furry animal, I think.

    Some people just aren’t worth it. Maybe they were in the past. Maybe they will be again. But I find it’s important to have boundaries for oneself. It can be hard to balance.


  • A lot of our behaviors and coping mechanisms come from our parents. So if they’re lonely and have no friends, you should examine why that is, and try to change it in yourself.

    One of my friends realized after therapy they had a lot of behaviors from their dad. Stuff they hated when their dad did (lashing out when uncomfortable, mostly). Once they saw it, they were able to work on it. Before that, it had been a real source of friction with friendships.