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  • What do you personally see as male problems? Without googling - just off the top of your head. Im intrigued as to what gets broadcast.

    Off the top of my head for women - safety (both physical and psychological), financial independence, equality of opportunity, disparate domestic and emotional load, sexual objectification, gender pay disparity (overall), representation.

    I won’t say reproductive rights because I don’t live in the US, and while body image is a problem, I think its also impacting a lot of young men too.


  • macrocarpa@lemmy.worldtoComic Strips@lemmy.worldMake it about me
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    Responding directly to the person in the comic

    I hear you when you say that as a woman, you feel societal expectations of you can be harsh and contradictory.

    There isn’t a way for me to experience the same things that you experience, but I can try to empathise with your experiences by comparing them with my own, and noting times when I have felt the same way. This means that I have to compare my experiences with yours. It isn’t done from a place of contest, but from trying to relate.



  • The person you’re arguing with is called crocodile munted and the flag next to their name is Australian.

    There is a slim chance they’re not able to vote in the us elections

    I’m not sure if you’ve picked it up so to clearly spell it out: irritating other people for the simple pleasure of watching them becoming more irritated is a national sport in Australia.


  • Late Gen x and early gen y had an off-line childhood and digital adulthood. I think that explains a fair amount about computer literacy, because a lot of what they were exposed to is the base config so they had to learn their way up.

    although I find that there are plenty of both that are absolutely clueless about tech

    Another weird thing that changed in that generation was communication style. Sms and email bred their own language and abbreviations…

    Other notables - digital wayfinding (online maps and Gps), music purchase and consumption, proliferation of social media, adoption of online persona, all changes that gen x / early y lived through.


  • While I have empathy, the reason we’re in the state of recognising and intervening with neurodiversity is the work that educators, parents and researchers have done over the past sixty years. Pleae recognise this for the progress it represents.

    People do the best with what they have and what they know. No it’s not your fault. Neither is it your parents or teachers when they don’t have the knowledge or tools to help them. There is a solid chance that they were as lost, frustrated and confused as you. Or they’re simply shitty people…

    In 50 years time there will be another condition that we don’t know about now, for which we are not providing accommodation, which causes kids harm, that your kids will look back on and be absolutely shocked, like why the fuck was this ever tolerated and how could we not know. Obesity? Usage of social media? Assessment?





  • Never been a multiplayer fan, reading the above its the same story as many other hobbies and recreations tho right?

    offer a neverending challenge

    …which requires continuous ongoing investment to overcome or even compete

    There’s always a better opponent

    …who has more time or resource to put into getting better

    And I’ve made a lot of good friends through these communities.

    …because they attract similar minded people, but there’s also toxic dickheads as well

    I feel like the good bits and the bad hits of community are the community







  • macrocarpa@lemmy.worldtoHumor@lemmy.worldWelcome to Lauren's Wedding
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    3 months ago

    Could be

    Intentional self aware and self effacing humour from the couple

    A tongue in cheek thing arranged by either the bride or groom

    She did all the work in arranging it and he doesn’t give a shit about marriage so a passive aggressive way of her celebrating an event that matters for he, but not for him

    Soneone photoshopping