• surewhynotlem@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    I’m saying that it’s very important that as many actual rape victims come forward as possible. To have that happen we must appear supportive and show that we will believe them. That’s why we say we believe the victim. To get them to come out.

    The court system is there to verify the claim after. That’s obvious and we don’t need to highlight that point. Highlighting that point, that the process of conviction isn’t easy, dissuades victims from coming forward.

    The point of this story, which many missed, is that the court system failed. His lawyer told him to plead guilty. And he did.

    The “verify” part is broken, and you don’t fix it by trusting victims less.

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      7 months ago

      The point of this story, which many missed, is that the court system failed. His lawyer told him to plead guilty. And he did.

      The “verify” part is broken, and you don’t fix it by trusting victims less.

      No. The point of the story is, someone exploited this…

      To have that happen we must appear supportive and show that we will believe them. That’s why we say we believe the victim. To get them to come out.

      …and the concept you’re advocating is the thing that almost had an innocent person’s life ruined. To which you seem to be fine with at 0.01%—“Whoop-de-doo”—because you have an assumption that it’s offset by catching more bad guys.

      That. Is. Fucking. Sick. I’m trying to give you benefit of doubt, but you’re doubling down on it.

      we must appear supportive and show that we will believe them

      That’s called Dark Psychology. Spoiler alert: It results in bad outcomes, such as seen in this article. An innocent almost had their life ruined because of the concept you’re advocating.