• Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 months ago

    I love how even in the “child free” community, people STILL can’t help themselves but come in and tell everyone they’re ridiculous for not wanting/liking children.

    It’s like a religious cult of reproduction that looks down on anyone not “doing their part” to keep the child crushing machine fed. They can’t help themselves, be it from anger or jealousy or any number of things.

    They just can’t wait to tell you how wrong you are for any and all of it.

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      2 months ago

      tell everyone they’re ridiculous for not wanting/liking children.

      I don’t give a fuck if people have kids or not - in fact, I would love for people who don’t want kids to not have them.

      That’s different than using a child murderer to make jokes about killing loud children.

    • chloroken@lemmy.ml
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      2 months ago

      You’re so fucking weird. There is literally nobody in this thread doing the thing you describe. It’s like you are having a hallucination.

      The only cringe thing in this entire thread is you not realizing who Casey Anthony is and then thinking nobody else knows who she is either.

      • Jerkface (any/all)@lemmy.ca
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        2 months ago

        This is pretty par for the course for this crowd. “Childfree” spaces are like, Reddit atheists in that while they have a perfectly valid position, they also have a lot of insufferable, smug hyperbole.

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          That is not “telling someone they’re ridiculous for not wanting/liking children” though, is it?

          Nothing wrong with being child free, or pointing out that a lot of society is breeding-centric. Two wrongs don’t make a right, though

          • Jerkface (any/all)@lemmy.ca
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            2 months ago

            There are several people who are not part of the child-free community who have come to the thread specifically to cause shit. It happens commonly. Deny it all you want, it doesn’t accomplish anything when it’s right here in front of us.

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              The post made it to all, you’re gonna get opinions that vary from your walled garden, if you don’t want that, than make your safe place private.

              It’s not causing shit to call out views and people who shouldn’t belong or contribute to the community they are in. It’s correcting a wrong.

              And yet there is always some people who share the views or don’t want to call it out. This is how Nazi germany started by the way. Yes, I’m comparing what you’re doing to Nazi’s, since it’s the exact same situation.

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              Calling out a child abusing wannabe is not the same thing, and the whole point of Lemmy is to allow outsiders in and communicate so it’s not a walled garden or “safe space”.

              People can be childfree, most people have a line to what that means though, and it’s well before child abuse or murder.

              Read OPs comments, they aren’t the type of user who should be allowed to post and comment here, but there’s zero moderation.

              These are the users you want to provide comments and discourse? These child abusers? Are you even a member of this community? Because if you are, stop defending the shitty users.

      • Jerkface (any/all)@lemmy.ca
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        2 months ago

        Rather than telling people to delete posts, how about you just go away? Then everyone is happy! Wouldn’t that be wonderful?

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          No, I’d rather not let a wannabe child abuser and their defenders just be able to run amuck on Lemmy. This behavior and attitude starts to bleed out.

          They’re even using other communities to defend being this way.

          And you’re wanting to be on their side and defend this? Give your fucking head a shake dude.

          I’m just gonna add to your label that you’re a child abuser defender too now.

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            Also we cant allow shit like this to become rampant here.

            TheDeProgram got banned because the feds saw some brigaders posting violent memes there.

            So Im just supposed to stand around and let ANOTHER community Im part of get eternally banned all because a person in need of therapy with ‘dark energy’ as an IQ score wants to post edgy memes?

            …Nah! I think Ill nip that in the bud and keep the community.

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            “Let?” As though it’s up to you? How arrogant. You are powerless to do anything about it except cause problems for yourself and others. Have a good life.

            PS: how’s mom and dad?

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      Dude if I post a meme about pinochet, adoplh shitler or suharto on a misantrhopy forum with my joke being ‘iF yOu WaNt ThErE To Be LeSs HuManS!? I HavE JuSt thE MaN fOr THe jOb!!1?1?1?111¿’ do you think the people on that there forum would laugh in unison with me or ask me to leave forever?

      That is exactly what this meme is doing.

      Being childfree doesnt mean ‘Give a pass to ALLL humans who shown mrderous cruelty to children’ instead it means ‘Give a pass to ALL humans who choose to live a peaceful lifestyle where they choose to exclude themselves from things involving children.’ …Thats it

      Same can be said for things related to misanthropy . Misanthropy doesnt mean ‘Super-Individualistic-Turbo-Genocidal Hatred Of All Humans!!!1!1!¿ Give a pass to ALL HUMANS who have done cruel things to reduce the human population !1!1!32¿¡’ instead it means ‘Give a pass to ALL HUMANS who have peacefully chosen to exclude themselves from other activities involving other humans.’ …Thats it.

      We shall neveer give a pass to a hellish demon like casey anthony who will probably become a serial k1ller in a couple decades.