Husband, Father, Gamer, Nerd

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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I’m mostly in the “fuck AI” camp. As is my eldest son. The other day I messaged him and said “I hate to say this, but I just had a helpful interaction with AI.”

    Python has importlib. I’ve used it many times, particularly when laying DB libraries conditionally.

    I was in a situation where I needed to load arbitrary python code from an arbitrary location. I was sure I could use importlib to do this, but couldn’t sort it out. Nine of my search results turned to anything that moved me in the right direction. Finally I asked copilot. Not only did it get me where I needed to go but when I told it “I got this error when doing this thing.” It told me I was a moron and why.

    Needless to say I got my weird problem sorted.

    AI still sucks though.


  • Me…

    Two email threads on the same subject with the same subject line, slightly different recipient lists.

    It was a really deep thread and at one point I had emailed the internal version with “the customer is not good at math.” And included the correct math.

    Some time later we had resolved the issue and I replied to the customer, but somehow ended up on the wrong thread. Fortunately it was so deep that I don’t think they ever saw it. But one of our VPs did. We had an entertaining conversation.

    To this day I hate threads that go on for ages and I hate it when people reuse threads.


  • Your worth, your value is not determined by what someone else makes.

    Also, I’m a bit ignorant of this subject so forgive me if I get it wrong, but did he not go to school significantly longer for his MD than you did for yours?

    I believe he also had to go through the hell that is residency, I didn’t believe nurses do.

    If you’re envious of his salary, improve your skills, or your education. If you’re happy where you are at In life, then don’t let the fact that others make more than you interfere with that happiness.

    No matter what you do, there will always be others who make more, one of those sad facts of life.







  • What a lovely post. Thank you for sharing it.

    I’m 60 years old, my father passed many years ago. I have still not come to grips with all the complexities of our relationship. My wife knows that if we ever see a film or TV show where a parent, but particularly a father shows any form of approval for something their son did, I will turn into a blubbering mess.

    That said, more rational me knows that there were many ways in which my father was a good dad, if am willing to take the time to look for them.

    I have three sons and a daughter, my greatest hope in life is that they won’t have the same issues with me as a father that I did with my own dad.

    Thanks again for this amazing story about how even small things we do can have a great impact, and not necessarily on those we expect them to.